Anonymous whispered: I have this really great mutual who I love but she's sort of very skeptical of p much anything outside the social binary. Today she made an off hand comment about demisexuality being a made up term for what relationships should be and it just hurt?

It is okay that that hurt. That kind of comment is rude, unnecessary, and just plain wrong. Don’t let anyone tell you that demisexuality is a made up term, that it’s attention-seeking, that it’s not a valid sexuality.

That person is wrong

If you feel comfortable with doing so, feel free to tell them. Let them know that their comments were hurtful— do it on anon, if it makes you feel more comfortable. If you don’t want to do that, or don’t want to unfollow them, then maybe try blacklisting their personal or opinions tag, if they have one.

What is important is that your dash is a safe space for you. It’s okay to break mutuals if someone makes you uncomfortable or hurts you. You’re not stuck in there.

I’m sorry that you had to deal with that, my dear. <3


sassy and i were discussing how harry styles is a good courfeyrac fc but there’s only one person who would be caught dead in that disastrously experimental, expensive, tity-out, head-scarves galore fashion.

  • Me: Who's a good boy?
  • Dog: ???????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????
  • Dog: !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


i’m gonna love you like the black widow, baby


it’s very important that i am both cute and powerful

For those friends you love more than anything in the world, but who you’ve never met face to face. For those friends who will listen to you ramble at midnight and dry your tears from 2,000 miles away. For friends you found by chance, but won’t ever give up.

01. thinking about you— frank ocean // 02. you always make me smile— kyle andrews (i don’t know why i love you/i just know, i can’t stop thinking of you) // 03. you’re my best friend— queen // 04. skinny love— bon iver // 05. rivers and roads— the head and the heart (and i miss your face like hell) // 06. the story— brandi carlile (you made me feel like a million bucks) // 07. san francisco— the mowglis // 08. burn— ellie goulding // 09. keep your head up— andy grammer // 10. one minute more— capital cities (two stars, one constellation) // 11. cutie boots— stepdad cover, doug maxwell


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Chris Markus: We always wanted to approach Sam through the prism of a being fellow veteran. Someone who could speak to Steve on that level as opposed to, you know, because he’s Captain America. And also we brought up the idea that Steve, in addition to everything else he’s gone through, spent four years in World War II. That’s very traumatic stuff. And he has never had a chance to decompress about any of it. 

Anthony Russo: One of my favorite lines from him is, where he says: “I’m more of a soldier than a spy.” I just loved that so much because it speaks to his relationship with Cap and their nature.

Joe Russo: You guys did a great job with this scene. This is probably the hardest scene in the movie because it leads to the biggest buy in the film, which is - well, maybe there’s a couple of other big buys - that Cap is gonna go back to a guy he met jogging on the mall when his life is in danger because he’s the only guy he can trust. So it was important that these two connect on a very deep level, an emotional level in this scene.

Chris Markus: It’s always a credit to Mackie.

Steve McFeely: Yeah. I trust Mackie.

Chris Markus: You would go to Anthony Mackie. Some people you wouldn’t go to. 

Joe Russo: Let’s talk about Mackie for a second. It’s a reason we cast him is one, you know, I’ve never not seen a truthful moment from him on screen, and two, he has this incredible ability to combine charm and integrity. A difficult thing to do is to be funny and convey integrity at the same time.

Steve McFeely: He’s not shallow.

Joe Russo: He has great depth as an actor which allows Steve to feel the depth, the audience to feel the depth, which makes you believe that Steve would trust this guy even though their relationship is so new. 

- Captain America: The Winter Soldier Blu-ray Audio Commentary

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